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	<title>Comments on: My purpose in life?</title>
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		<title>By: steph</title>
		<link>http://stephsblog.co.uk/2008/07/my-purpose-in-life/comment-page-1/#comment-19</link>
		<dc:creator>steph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 18:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Trish,

Don&#039;t worry Hubby and I talk all the time about where we are going and what we want to achieve in life. We both are very happy together but feel that the &quot;usual&quot; having children after marriage is not for us just now! We both really want children but we want to do something as a couple first and have a bit of us time before we compleatly settle down. We will work it out one day x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Trish,</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t worry Hubby and I talk all the time about where we are going and what we want to achieve in life. We both are very happy together but feel that the &#8220;usual&#8221; having children after marriage is not for us just now! We both really want children but we want to do something as a couple first and have a bit of us time before we compleatly settle down. We will work it out one day x</p>
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		<title>By: Trish</title>
		<link>http://stephsblog.co.uk/2008/07/my-purpose-in-life/comment-page-1/#comment-18</link>
		<dc:creator>Trish</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jul 2008 21:15:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steph - love your husband and tell him how you feel.  Talk, talk and talk again and everything will become clear in time.   You may not acheive everything you want to do but acheiving some of it will feel good.  Best wishes</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steph &#8211; love your husband and tell him how you feel.  Talk, talk and talk again and everything will become clear in time.   You may not acheive everything you want to do but acheiving some of it will feel good.  Best wishes</p>
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		<title>By: Mike</title>
		<link>http://stephsblog.co.uk/2008/07/my-purpose-in-life/comment-page-1/#comment-16</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 23:27:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good luck and wish you guys all the best. Marriage rocks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good luck and wish you guys all the best. Marriage rocks!</p>
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		<title>By: steph</title>
		<link>http://stephsblog.co.uk/2008/07/my-purpose-in-life/comment-page-1/#comment-15</link>
		<dc:creator>steph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 19:09:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Mike, its nice to know I&#039;m not alone! I think its just that I&#039;m at that point in my life where I&#039;m not a child anymore and I have to make some decisions as to where my life is going to go but I don&#039;t want to get stuck into a routine of looking after children and working! I want to try new things, I think I need to go traveling and do some volunteer work. I would love the opportunity to spend some really good quality time with my hubby before we get to stuck in our ways ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Mike, its nice to know I&#8217;m not alone! I think its just that I&#8217;m at that point in my life where I&#8217;m not a child anymore and I have to make some decisions as to where my life is going to go but I don&#8217;t want to get stuck into a routine of looking after children and working! I want to try new things, I think I need to go traveling and do some volunteer work. I would love the opportunity to spend some really good quality time with my hubby before we get to stuck in our ways <img src='http://stephsblog.co.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Mike</title>
		<link>http://stephsblog.co.uk/2008/07/my-purpose-in-life/comment-page-1/#comment-14</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 18:33:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey there, 
I am the husband of a beautiful 26yo girl who sometimes feels exactly the same. I can almost hear her voice while reading your post. We talk about the purpose in life for ourselves and start daydreaming and wondering the inevitable what-ifs. It gives a good reflexion time on what we&#039;re doing curently and what we want to do next. Good conversations, lots of laughs. At the same time, I can&#039;t help but feel guilty somehow of how she is not living the dreams she had before we met and got married. Dreams that are as big and beautiful as her smile and that I feel I got in the middle of, sort of like an intruder. 

I would ask you, as I have asked my wife before a couple times. What are you going to do about it? What would you like your husband to do about it? We need for you to tell us so we don&#039;t continue to screw it, or feel like we do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey there,<br />
I am the husband of a beautiful 26yo girl who sometimes feels exactly the same. I can almost hear her voice while reading your post. We talk about the purpose in life for ourselves and start daydreaming and wondering the inevitable what-ifs. It gives a good reflexion time on what we&#8217;re doing curently and what we want to do next. Good conversations, lots of laughs. At the same time, I can&#8217;t help but feel guilty somehow of how she is not living the dreams she had before we met and got married. Dreams that are as big and beautiful as her smile and that I feel I got in the middle of, sort of like an intruder. </p>
<p>I would ask you, as I have asked my wife before a couple times. What are you going to do about it? What would you like your husband to do about it? We need for you to tell us so we don&#8217;t continue to screw it, or feel like we do.</p>
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